This is Part Two of a two-part series about leaning into simple practices that support you in spending more time moving steadily toward making money through the expression of the wisdom life has developed in you. This series showcases the principles and practices we use in the Passion and Profit Action Circle. Our next session starts on Monday, April 23rd.

Getting Better at Making Decisions

If you want a successful, profitable business, sooner or later you need to develop your skill at making decisions.

Because in a funny way, business is nothing more than making a series of decisions and acting on them.

Deciding what business you are in.

Deciding what to call yourself.

Deciding how to articulate what it is you offer, what you bring to the world.

Deciding what income streams to offer.

Deciding when to offer them.

Deciding how much to charge for them.

Deciding who to market to.

Deciding who to study or mentor with.

Deciding how much to invest in a VA or a training program.

We feed procrastination by not deciding. Not deciding which project to work on. Not deciding which article to right. Not deciding which audience to speak to.

Not deciding means we have an excuse for not acting. And while that can calm our lizard brain that is afraid of change, it raises the anxiety for the part of us that is committed to creating work in the world that is lucrative and fulfilling. To find fresh ways to earn good pay sharing the wisdom we’ve developed in this lifetime.

One of the practices that supported me in breaking through with my income was simply keeping a running list of all the decisions I had not yet made. And then using some of the first hour of my day to go through the list and decide.

I recommend you find a way that works for you to make decisions relatively quickly (don’t short cut your own need to process, but don’t let yourself get stuck agitating without making progress.)

The smart and complicated often struggle with being able to see any situation from multiple points of view simultaneously. To seeing the pros and cons of every possible choice. And that can be paralyzing. We all need a way to cut through the endless internal back-and-forth, and pick the path that we’ll move forward on. The truth is that in business it’s often more productive to make the wrong decision rapidly, than it is to postpone making any decision at all.

I am a woo-woo kind of gal, so I use a pendulum. It gets me out of my head, it taps into what the bigger, less conscious part of me knows and wants, but mostly it gives me an answer, right or wrong, so that I move forward.

But it’s up to you to find a method that works for you. It could be flipping a coin. It could be using the Sufi practice of Remembrance. It could be talking to your body about how the choice feels.

It could be relying on a partner, a mastermind group, or a mentor, but ideally it’s a method that connects you to the clearest, wisest part of yourself and to the part of you that can go beyond logic, or mass consciousness, and truly sense what is right for you.

One of the big things we do in the Action Circle we help you build your decision-making muscles by encouraging you to pick a Priority Project and by providing a safe, friendly place to ask for help if you get stuck. Want to come play? The next session of the Passion and Profit Action Circle starts on Monday, April 23rd. Learn more and register here: http://soundbiteshaman.com/ppac.

In the last four weeks, I have worked on a task that I’ve put off for too long. I will finish it by this Friday and celebrate…the energy it will free being off my plate is spectacular.

The small bites approach has really been helpful. And a comment made on the recent group call somehow has helped me attain a new focusing ability.

I now have a new calmness, focus, and peace of mind that I can’t put a price on.

Cynthia Raman

Register today at http://soundbiteshaman.com/ppac

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  • Carol Steinberg:
    I think this is such an interesting take on what's hard about being on your own--the decision dilemma. And also how a "wrong" decision is better than no decision. I'm getting a pendulum!
  • isabel:
    Thanks Gina! What's fun about the "decision" list is you start to notice subtle decisions that you aren't making that are slowing you down.
  • Gina Hiatt:
    Isabel, I got so much from this short blog post! "One of the practices that supported me in breaking through with my income was simply keeping a running list of all the decisions I had not yet made. And then using some of the first hour of my day to go through the list and decide." What a great idea that is! Most of my to-do list involves a decision that I don't want to make. I've got a pendulum and I will try that, too. I'm not woo woo, but I understand how that can focus you powerfully and help you see what you're not seeing. Also, picking a Priority Project is so important, yet I keep forgetting to hold myself that that. Your Action Circle is a wonderful way to keep people focused!

In this video, I share another inspirational insight on how smart and complicated business owners can make money in fresh, new ways by discovering and delivering the wisdom that life has developed in them.

In it I share a story and an exercise that helps you move past the shadow or phantom desires so the clearer, truer vision of what you want to create comes forward.

It’s about 7 minutes, mostly story.



Prefer to read the transcript? Download it here.

If you have comments, questions, or your own strategies for moving into the space of “What If”, please share them below!

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  • Virginia:
    Isabel, I loved listening to you tell this story and share your experience with us ... and the invitation to sit with this question ourselves for a while in order to clear the way for us to step out and share our deepest message and the wisdom our life has brought us. You know I access inner wisdom by writing the labyrinth, but I am intrigued by your post-it process because it separates one possibility from the next ... so I may try it and see what happens ... just for the JOY of it. Like so many others have already said ... I'm grateful for YOU (and the work you do) as I consider ways I might share with the world more generously. Hugs and blessings, Virginia
  • Jude Spacks:
    Lovely, Isabel, just lovely, as usual. Thank you so much for your steady generosity, power of example, creativity and presence! I took an hour or so every day for 5 or 6 days in a row recently to deepen into some of the exercises in your home study program 'How to Say What You Do When What You Do Is Deep, Powerful and Hard to Explain'. (Second time through it--it's SO fine). Afterwards I suddenly found myself doing more to revamp the foundations of my biz in a week than I'd been able to get clarity on in months. I renamed my business and website, did deep revisions of every single page, set up a whole new auto-responder, and finally, finally am set up with the give-away I knew a year ago I wanted to make available with sign-up. (Tortoise-not-hare school of biz development). The sign-up gift is about a powerful, fun, non-verbal exercise called The Ten Minute Field Trip that can help with reconnecting to core wisdom. All this became possible from really getting that True Spirit clear. Since I struggle to be concise (as evident already in this comment!) I am so appreciative of your support to truly allow expansion before honing in, as you do with this 'what if' exercise too. My True Spirit is a big sparkly hunk of run-on sentence that really lifts and moves me. Thanks for all you do! xoJude
  • Helga Genannt Matzko:
    to sit quietly and then to trust that whatever happens has purpose is indeed difficult. and Yet, we can always tell if we are new to what our souls is, trying toor has been trying to tell us for a long time. LISTENING! AHHHH.
  • Staceyzzzz:
    What a great tool! Thank you so much for sharing this with me!

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